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Saturday, October 17, 2015

Dance Clubs No Longer Have Dancing....

I saw this story (Below) and instantly had to give my view on this subject as I am a person who LOVED going to clubs.... until.... the club owners started treating the club with the same attitude as a strip joint-
"$100 Bottle Service"....

also- - the reason the nightclub life has been on the steady decline is because they started getting rid of the live music and DJ's that the dancers wanted... & decided to weed out the "older" people by hiring a bunch of DJ's that promote "Thug Life" - Dancers ARE the only reason clubs were successful- IF the club no longer chooses to attract dancers... then yeh- they are stuck with a bunch of people who just stand around... and- lets be real here... girls have no need to dress up just to drive someplace where no one is dancing (no flirting) & the guys are just drinking.- One of the reasons the clubs went with hiring the DJ's that no one dances to... is because it promoted drinking..... drinking leads to DUI's... and since the people don't dance- they get super drunk...

 Bottom Line: Clubs are no longer trying to be successful- they no longer promote dancing.... they no longer want to spend money on live entertainment... & they believe promoting "thug Life" will earn them the revenue they seek.... when the clubs choose to get back on the "Dance Contest" train... & dancers hear that the music is good - the clubs will fill up & gals will want to dress up... & men will get phone numbers again... maybe even a kiss... The clubs that ARE still doing GREAT are the ones that cater to Dancers.... & /or are theme based ‪#‎NewWaveBar‬ ‪#‎That80sClub‬ ‪#‎CanyonClub‬ ‪#‎BarSinister‬
There’s a massive trend brewing in America’s nightlife scene. The attendance of nightclubs and bars have been on a steady decline for the past several years.…
theinsidermagazine.com
 
 
and to point out the obvious.... music leads to dancing.... dancing leads to touching... touching leads to kissing... the minute the clubs decided to get rid of the very thing that made them desirable... was the same minute they started to be less desirable.- people need incentive to go to a club... music & potential kissing (hooking up) was the attraction... it was also the reason the clothing industry did better... people needed to "look sharp" to catch the eye of a potential kiss.... now- sadly- the clothing industry is also on the decline because no one dresses up... because the men no longer dress up... #BringBackTheMenFromThe80s
 
 
The Clubs need to remember what it was that made clubs enjoyable....
Bring back the "Wet T-Shirt Contests" they brought in women who wanted to show off their new boob job & win the $50... they also brought in the men who wanted to see the ladies...-
Bring back The "Dance Contest"... DANCERS love to dance to music!!!!!! 
 (Not sit at a table and get drunk for $100...)
Bring Back The Live Entertainment- Live Bands brings in FANS....
 
My point is- the club owners lost sight of their reason for existing... it is to bring people together to meet & greet... and enjoy an evening of fun...
 
Clubs that choose to only attract "Thugs" loose their clientele....
gals have no incentive to get dressed in something cute... & drive to some club... where the men don't even dance... or bother looking up from their drink.
 
men need incentive to dress up ... take dance lessons & hand out their phone number.
Gals have no desire to hand out their phone number to a man... who doesn't at least put down the cell phone and dance.
 
DJ's need to quit playing the rap music.... quit attracting the riff raff...
 
The ONLY clubs that still are doing good... are the ones that have DJ's that play a variety of music...
70's, 80's, 90's, current.... Dancers can dance to the weather report if they have to... but it is hard to flirt with someone ... when the rap song just keeps screaming "Back that ass up"