Dance Clubs No Longer Have Dancing....

I saw this story (Below) and instantly had to give my view on this subject as I am a person who LOVED going to clubs.... until.... the club owners started treating the club with the same attitude as a strip joint-
"$100 Bottle Service"....

also- - the reason the nightclub life has been on the steady decline is because they started getting rid of the live music and DJ's that the dancers wanted... & decided to weed out the "older" people by hiring a bunch of DJ's that promote "Thug Life" - Dancers ARE the only reason clubs were successful- IF the club no longer chooses to attract dancers... then yeh- they are stuck with a bunch of people who just stand around... and- lets be real here... girls have no need to dress up just to drive someplace where no one is dancing (no flirting) & the guys are just drinking.- One of the reasons the clubs went with hiring the DJ's that no one dances to... is because it promoted drinking..... drinking leads to DUI's... and since the people don't dance- they get super drunk...

 Bottom Line: Clubs are no longer trying to be successful- they no longer promote dancing.... they no longer want to spend money on live entertainment... & they believe promoting "thug Life" will earn them the revenue they seek.... when the clubs choose to get back on the "Dance Contest" train... & dancers hear that the music is good - the clubs will fill up & gals will want to dress up... & men will get phone numbers again... maybe even a kiss... The clubs that ARE still doing GREAT are the ones that cater to Dancers.... & /or are theme based ‪#‎NewWaveBar‬ ‪#‎That80sClub‬ ‪#‎CanyonClub‬ ‪#‎BarSinister‬

Bid Farewell: Why Millennials Are Abandoning the Nightclub Nightlife | The Insider Magazine

There’s a massive trend brewing in America’s nightlife scene. The attendance of nightclubs and bars have been on a steady decline for the past several years.…

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and to point out the obvious.... music leads to dancing.... dancing leads to touching... touching leads to kissing... the minute the clubs decided to get rid of the very thing that made them desirable... was the same minute they started to be less desirable.- people need incentive to go to a club... music & potential kissing (hooking up) was the attraction... it was also the reason the clothing industry did better... people needed to "look sharp" to catch the eye of a potential kiss.... now- sadly- the clothing industry is also on the decline because no one dresses up... because the men no longer dress up... #BringBackTheMenFromThe80s

 

 

The Clubs need to remember what it was that made clubs enjoyable....

Bring back the "Wet T-Shirt Contests" they brought in women who wanted to show off their new boob job & win the $50... they also brought in the men who wanted to see the ladies...-

Bring back The "Dance Contest"... DANCERS love to dance to music!!!!!! 

 (Not sit at a table and get drunk for $100...)

Bring Back The Live Entertainment- Live Bands brings in FANS....

 

My point is- the club owners lost sight of their reason for existing... it is to bring people together to meet & greet... and enjoy an evening of fun...

 

Clubs that choose to only attract "Thugs" loose their clientele....

gals have no incentive to get dressed in something cute... & drive to some club... where the men don't even dance... or bother looking up from their drink.

 

men need incentive to dress up ... take dance lessons & hand out their phone number.

Gals have no desire to hand out their phone number to a man... who doesn't at least put down the cell phone and dance.

 

DJ's need to quit playing the rap music.... quit attracting the riff raff...

 

The ONLY clubs that still are doing good... are the ones that have DJ's that play a variety of music...

70's, 80's, 90's, current.... Dancers can dance to the weather report if they have to... but it is hard to flirt with someone ... when the rap song just keeps screaming "Back that ass up"

 

 

 

Nightmare Before Christmas

It's almost the end of 2014... and I'm learning everything about how to deal with the aftermath of a flood that transpires where you reside...

I was woke up by my son on December 4th (he NEVER wakes me up- usually it is me who has to wake him up) - he told me "be careful getting out of bed the whole house is wet"
I put my feet on the ground and realized the water went up to my ankles!

I tried to find the source of the flooding... checked all the pipes etc & my son kept saying "I hope I didn't clog the toilet" - I looked everywhere but did not see any toilet paper... much less any shit.

I started sweeping the water out the front door and the kitchen door... but noted it didn't really seem to help.- I then grabbed my lil vacuum cleaner (which is NOT a wet vac) & started vacuuming - I was sucking up about 2 gallons every 10 mins & then dumping it on the front lawn...  after 8 hrs of non stop draining the carpet... I went to bed despite the carpet still being wet...

I woke up and it stank so bad! - I threw in the towel and decided to call the professionals...
Service Masters... they arrived and instantly started cutting up the carpet...

from that point I started filming all the crazy stuff that has and is transpiring....
I am calling the videos "Nightmare Before Christmas" & clearly- the "Nightmare" will be lasting long after Christmas.

Who knew an inch of water could cause so much damage??????

I may be complaining- but I'm counting my blessings at the same time...
I'm grateful I can pack my stuff... a lot of people who encounter a flood... do not get to salvage anything.

Oh- and the mystery of the flood was solved... a week later... when it happened again.

CLICK SUBSCIBE TO THE VLOG PLAYLIST - Miss Ruby Tuesday- "NIGHTMARE BEFORE CHRISTMAS" AT YOUTUBE TO STAY UPDATED ON THE OUTCOME...
There are currently 16 videos... all reflecting what to expect if you encounter a similar scenario... I am in the process of packing everything in the house and having to move to a temporary apt... until the house is deemed "safe to live in" again...

                                                         
Needles To Say... I'm ready for that drink on New Years Eve!

The New TV

Today.... I broke down & invested the same amount of money I usually spend on a weekend hotel stay... for- a much bigger TV... for my bedroom. - I went from a 19 inch- to a 32 inch... hard to believe- but- 5 years ago... that 19 inch TV cost $100 more... than the bigger TV- I bought today...

 

I must confess- I really miss the old days of buying a TV & plugging it into the wall... and instantly having a picture... (Life was a lot less complicated on so many levels) -

now its such an ordeal when you buy a TV... tons of cords, lots of metric screws (NOT included- but required= extra trip to the store) - Wall Brackets (Not Included but can be purchased for about the same price as the TV) - You will need a drill for the wall mounting... & last but not least- at least 30 mins or more required for syncing the TV to the service provider...

 

 

 but- yeh- it's a bigger TV - I got it for less than $200...

and -luckily- I've got a man in the house to help set it up. hahahahaha 

 

 

Lets Talk About Sex...

Its NO Secret... I Totally LOVE Sex!!!!!  :-D

I think it is the GREATEST invention EVER... yet- it surprises me how many people are totally offended by sex... and- how many people would prefer to NEVER engage in it... as if it is something that is repulsive... yet- they are totally accepting of viewing violence. 

Strippers... Prostitutes and Porn Stars are considered shameful women.... because they are willing to get naked for men.... as if to state SEX is bad... and the men are bad because they seek it... Sex is NOT bad... it is GREAT... it is the sole reason we all exist... how can that be bad?????

Even Government goes out of it's way to censor consenting adults from enjoying life... They discourage people from enjoying watching porn- they act as if porn leads to the demise of our country... and then without even blinking- they hand 18 year old kids a gun- ship them off to some war and say... here is a helmet- here is a gun... if you come back alive and with all your limbs... congrats your someone who will get to stand on a street corner later in life cause were going to pay you far less than the guys we give a helmet and a football to....

Personally- I would prefer to watch 2 or more consenting adults give each other a big smile - rather than watch adults get their heads chopped off on national television.

To me IF a person would rather watch violence than sex- I feel they are the ones that truly have a problem. Violence makes this life scary... Sex makes this life enjoyable.   Nakedness is Fun!

 

 Below is a video I made pertaining to sex... BE WARNED- Not for those who are easily offended.

Bye 4 Now....

Hillary Clinton Is An Insult To Women

 Hillary Clinton is a complete insult to women- not only did she allow her husband to be with Jennifer Flowers for 12 years... she also sent the message to all women that its "OK" to be disrespected in a marriage after that ordeal with Monica- at that point- she could've stood up and stated - "women- it doesn't matter who your married to... even if he is the President- you should respect yourself enough to get a divorce."-

but nooooooooooo  - instead-
she chose to set the bar so low- that women believe it is actually better to stay married...
and the men learned they have nothing to fear if they get caught cheating.-

Hillary Clinton is the saddest excuse for a woman I have ever witnessed.
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UPDATED: 6-4-2016

Here is a video I created to further explain my disdain...

SWF STILL SEEKS SWM....

Sooooooooo 5 years ago I posted a video on youtube searching for my ideal kind of guy... needless to say I am still searching.

I know exactly what kind of man I would prefer... unfortunately- it never occurred to me that the kind of man I'm attracted to... does not prefer the kind of gal that I am...

As a rule- the men my own age are petrified of me (they always have been) - and the only men who seem to be attracted to me, are EXACTLY what I'm not looking for.... - It's not that I don't appreciate the "Manly Man" - it's just- well- I enjoy the "Girly Man" - the one who does get manicures... the one who does dress sharp... the one who DANCES. - My ideal man- DANCES!

I seem to meet men who wanna do the "Horizontal Bop"  and- Nothing against a good ole fashioned romp in the hay - but I truly need a man who ACTUALLY knows how to dance- one who truly loves to dance... not the man who only dances when he gets drunk...

Soooo- at age 55- I'm guessing my odds are slim to none in finding my ideal man- but on the brightside- I have no problems dancing alone.

 

 

 

The "Copyright Infringement"

Sooooooo today I got informed via youtube...

that once again there is a copyright infringement claim against me...

for singing a song -"If I was your Girlfriend" by Prince....

 

Youtube removed the video and I filed a counter-claim...

I then notified my Lawyer of the possible lawsuit pending against me...

I gave his number to Youtube and to the company who filed the "Copyright Infringement"

 

I really feel it falls under the "Fair Use" act - as I am not earning revenue on the video-

I am just singing the song (lots of other people ALSO have videos on Youtube singing that song)

 

This is my 4th "Copyright" battle-

The 1st battle was when I upoaded my 1st video to youtube... it was a video of me... dancing on American Bandstand... (I danced on that show for over 6 years) -

The 2nd battle was when I posted a video of me on "Peoples Court" with Judge Wapner...
(Again a video showing me on a TV show from the past)

The 3rd battle was when I danced to a song by Janet Jackson...
( that was considered "Audio Copyright Infringement)

After that battle - I was put on "Youtube Probation" and was at risk of losing my account.

As a dancer... I like to dance to music...
 I also LOVE to sing.
I'm not out to infringe on the music industry by dancing to the music... or singing to it.
and- as a person who has been on a few TV shows- I just wanted to show a few things from my past.

I currently have over 2 million views on Youtube... I prefer to remain in good standing with Youtube- 

 

This video below is a video I made when I was told I could NOT dance to "Known Music"

 

Bottom Line.... I'm willing to go to court to determine my right to sing and dance!

Stay tuned for future updates regarding this latest so called Infringement of the music industry.

**UPDATE** 4-3-2013

Here is my response to the current "Copyright Claim"

**UPDATE** 4-23-2013

IT appears that this headache has ended... :-D -  I received this in my e-mail...

Hi there,

In accordance with the Digital Millennium Copyright Act, we've completed
processing your counter-notification regarding your video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ftcMuan1bPs

This content has been restored unless you have deleted the video(s). Your
account will not be penalized.

Regards,


The YouTube Team